heart-felt closeness is not a measure of distance between u n the person, or the frequency u see each other...
why this mushy statement, that's becos I have just return from a week trip, and there are a dozen of people I am thinking of. u just have the feeling that they are really impt to u, to your life.
my hubby, gabriel, is of course at the top of this list. Each time I m away from him and enjoying something, like watching a scenic view, eating a delicious meal, I will be dying for him to come and enjoy that moment together with me. It is like you dun want him to miss out the very thing that brings u joy at that moment. He said the same thing to me as well, when he is on his own trips n as much as I told him to enjoy on my behalf, it is not possible to do it. It is nvr full enjoyment unless you are with the person whom you enjoy the company. I concluded that enjoyment is not only what you do but who you do it with.
i enjoy watching movie with my sisters. it is different watching with them, compared to others, esp touching movies. my buddies n i will enjoy drinking coffee and talking, coffee is like a must even after a heavy dinner. gab n i enjoying dining with rachel n her boyfriend, they are almost the first we will think of when we want to go for dinner. of course gab is the only one who i enjoy doing everything with... ( i hope it is vice versa =P )
I also beginning to believe that i m an extrovert. i love to have people around me, mayb i need them to be ard as well. i can start a conversation with a stranger on a plane. i have nvr watch a single movie on my own, hardly had a meal on my own as well. if i have to be alone, i will be watching tv at home or sleeping. i have insisted i m an introvert until gab told me otherwise. in fact, he say he is a passive extrovert (lazy in another word) n i m an active extrovert. i will always to look for someone to meet up.
my hubby, gabriel, is of course at the top of this list. Each time I m away from him and enjoying something, like watching a scenic view, eating a delicious meal, I will be dying for him to come and enjoy that moment together with me. It is like you dun want him to miss out the very thing that brings u joy at that moment. He said the same thing to me as well, when he is on his own trips n as much as I told him to enjoy on my behalf, it is not possible to do it. It is nvr full enjoyment unless you are with the person whom you enjoy the company. I concluded that enjoyment is not only what you do but who you do it with.
i enjoy watching movie with my sisters. it is different watching with them, compared to others, esp touching movies. my buddies n i will enjoy drinking coffee and talking, coffee is like a must even after a heavy dinner. gab n i enjoying dining with rachel n her boyfriend, they are almost the first we will think of when we want to go for dinner. of course gab is the only one who i enjoy doing everything with... ( i hope it is vice versa =P )
I also beginning to believe that i m an extrovert. i love to have people around me, mayb i need them to be ard as well. i can start a conversation with a stranger on a plane. i have nvr watch a single movie on my own, hardly had a meal on my own as well. if i have to be alone, i will be watching tv at home or sleeping. i have insisted i m an introvert until gab told me otherwise. in fact, he say he is a passive extrovert (lazy in another word) n i m an active extrovert. i will always to look for someone to meet up.
back to my initial topic, to you who is closest to my heart, thanks for being close to my heart, part of my world. it really brings warmth n joy to my heart, knowing i have u all.
p.s. if u are wondering if u are the one i m talking abt, yes yes yes, cos this blog will only be read by you. n if u think it is too mushy, haha, bear with me. i m lack of companion for 1 week.
5 comments:
jiejie, i know what u mean... imagine if instead of 1 week it was 1 year, how will you feel? i feel like i dun even know what i've become after being away for so long, trying to change and adapt to my community here...
wendy.. you just caused me to puke 5 buckets of foam lor..
lindy has no feelings one...but yet she is the one who will cry the most when watching sad movies...
aeh please lor.
if i show anyone your blog they will all vomit with me lor.
btw. i seldom cry for movies. die den die lor.
haha. tt's because you watched too many, immune alredi. last time u cry so much lor.
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